Country music has spent decades documenting what happens when men go drinking. Kaitlin Butts gives the women more say in how the evening unfolds. On Hello, Honky Tonk, a good time can mean freedom, though heartache still gets through the door. An illuminating predecessor is Loretta Lynn’s Don’t Come Home a Drinkin’ (With Lovin’ on Your Mind): country music with a woman firmly in charge of the conversation.